You like a woman, you interest her, she shows it to you, you start flirting. Her hormones making a crazy party and your testosterone is turning red. Your mind is already beginning to dream about the end of the night.
Do not rush, because that is where most people step on it. Where everything seems certain, there is where it can collapse.A wrong move, maybe an attack that you have not “weighed” properly and the game will be lost in seconds.
Like any game, in flirt you need to have strategy to lead you to victory. We have mapped the critical stages of your new adventure and the trap points. Now, we can present you with a complete technical plan that will lead you quickly to a guaranteed glorious conquest.
Technique 1: The voluntary departure
In the initial phase of the acquaintance, the first role is mainly played by the eyes. According to the journalist and author of How to Blow her Mind in Bed, Sisky Green, flirting increases the production of dopamine, which pushes you to desire and seek satisfaction, jointly puts you on the “right path”.
A recent study by the University of Sao Paulo, showed that this substance keeps you focused on your goal, while stimulating the production of extra testosterone. But if you want this meeting to have an interesting sequel, look to tame your hormones.
So contrary to what almost all men do when they know a woman, you preferred to say goodbye to her and leave while you are still having a good time. The fact that you have no aspirations to take her to bed from the first night, automatically transforms you into a challenge.
Tell her, for example, that unfortunately you have to leave with your friends, but that you would like to continue the conversation at another time. He will hardly refuse. You have just secured an appointment without falling into the mistake of asking for her phone like a liar.
Technique 2: The casual date
She is naturally waiting for you to call her to ask her out on a classic and uninspiring first date for dinner at an expensive restaurant, usually Friday or Saturday night. The trick is not to be predictable and make her try to guess what your next move will be.
Arrange a relaxed and quick meeting “to know us better” somewhere in the middle of the week and not necessarily after sunset, so that he feels even more familiar with you, without pressure and, most importantly, without either of you getting into the process of impressing the other.
Technique 3: Make her keep talking to you
The first night you go out you will have a nervousness, whether you like it or not. Sisky Green points out that one of your hormones is to blame for the above symptom: cortisol upsets you by stimulating your nervous system.
Not bad if you consider that research from Stony Brook University in the US states that people get aroused more easily when they are nervous.
In an attempt to hide the stress, many men self-destruct from the first date doing what they know best: they talk incessantly about themselves, to the point where the interlocutor (typical characterization) is desperately looking for the nearest emergency exit. The first time, try to ask more questions than answer hers, looking into her eyes as much as you can, not right or left.
Technique 4: Give priority to her language
The first kiss is an information exchange system, something like Linkedin, but in a biochemical version. For her, it is the time of your judgment, which will predispose her erotically to what is to follow. Psychologists claim that if the first kiss is a “map”, the chances of having sex are reduced to 50%.
The best time for the first kiss, however, is towards the end of the night, after you have eaten and drank and you have managed to put a chewing gum in your mouth.
Do not rush to speak, because you have the tendency, as shown by a study from the University of California, according to which men prefer “French” kisses, and this is because their saliva contains testosterone. Let her look for your language and then play.
Technique 5: Sex is about her
Although some things are taken for granted, it is worth noting. As much as you are sure of yourself, we imagine that for a shower, a little perfume and a trimming in the controversial points you will have provided. Being well-groomed and refreshed will be appreciated. Keep in mind that for women their first time in bed with someone is hardly described as “fantastic”.
Therefore, it would be wise in the beginning to behave modestly and avoid unfolding your talent as much as you want. Things change dramatically after the end of the first act. The reason; Oxytocin “pops” them differently in you and differently in her. Commonly, it increases its estrogen and lowers your testosterone. In other words, after the first time she feels closer to you.
This justifies the fact that most women want hugs and hugs. You, on the other hand, will want to sleep. Do not do it. Instead, try to outdo yourself and show tenderness. Apart from the beautiful feeling that you will give her, there is another reason to do it: physical contact after sex increases your dopamine and then your chances for an extra batch.
Technique 6th: Loose
After the first time the landscape begins to clear. As much as you believe the opposite, men fall in love twice as fast as women. If you end up going out with her often, do not behave like a bond from the first time. In other words, do not start planning immediately.
There is no greater alienation. Be the one who makes her have a good time, who does not restrict her, who does not require strict commitments. Be the one who gets along well with her and whatever happens. In the beginning, a short and pleasant phone call a day is enough. After four or five appointments the thing will have taken its course.
Hope we presend you a variety of technics that will make your dreams come true. Now, there is nothing else that going outside and try to put them in action. Qonquer every woman that you want.