3 Reasons Men Go With Call Girls
Love is a different thing from sex. No, the occasion that brings men and the call girls together is something even more important.
The opening of brothels was accompanied by strange new rules for the behavior of customers and employees, in a new, surreal version of social distancing.
Testimonies of an influx of customers from the very first day of opening are signs of a new era where contact and enjoyment of the naked body have become the most brutally hit by the coronavirus conditions of our daily life.
Contact with a desirable body (either female or male) became a new form of drinking prohibition. Even the paid escort of a woman acquired different reasons and occasions.
1. “It is not the need, it is not the loneliness that will bring me there…”
“You’re writing song lyrics to an article about sex,” says the inner voice of a potential reader. You will understand why we start with this verse and not only will you not leave, but you will return to these words.
Samantha is a writer/call girl from the Netherlands who, through her personal social media, attempts to change platitudes and myths about the everyday life of sex workers. Recently, she revealed exactly what most men who pay for escort services are looking for.
“I don’t remember a single time when a man has called me and only asked me for sex“, she says and adds: “Sex only lasts five minutes. If it was just for sex, then I’d go on five-minute dates. Men who go with call girls today are looking for something deeper.”
2. Learning what sex means through endless hours of porn
In a series of Instagram posts, Samantha reveals that most of the men who become her clients have serious mental health problems, are victims of domestic violence, and have experienced traumatic experiences that they are ashamed to share with a health counselor or psychologist.
3. The new brutality
An insurmountably cynical text states that in the time of the pandemic there is not just ‘depression’ among men and women, but symptoms of extreme mental deterioration and depressive behaviors which it describes as ‘the new normal.
The increase in men presenting with suicidal syndromes and seeking treatment for depression in the Netherlands alone, according to the psychiatric journal Beyond Blue, is 75%. Even in the age of the pandemic, the stereotype of the man who says “I’m fine, I’ll manage to feel better on my own” and doesn’t seek psychiatric treatment, remains unshaken. Paid sex and the need for companionship have come closer than ever. The escort herself, Samantha, says so.
“That’s why I love my job. That’s what keeps me here. Money is good, but it comes and goes. It’s the connection with other people, the camaraderie, and the authenticity of the relationships I’ve developed that keep me in the profession. Even in these relationships, there is passion.“
